How often have we heard someone say, “Put the past in the past”? Maybe a few times?
This statement communicates to us that we should forget about the past and look forward to the future while embracing the present. But is this easy to do? Or, should we even seek to do such a thing?
For some of us the past can be a daunting thing, full of dark and painful memories that remind us of who and what we were and what we have done. Most of would rather forget and move on, and would prefer for people to not remind us of these past events. However, I think moving on is the antidote for improvement but forgetting is a mistake.
Let’s look at a quote that perfectly sums up my reasoning:
“Those who do not remember the past are condemned to repeat it.” – George Santayana